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You
must be patient. Don’t press her for personal information like her
real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun
until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to
rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate
or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.
Be
absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good
relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and
deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you
are back at square one.
A
picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of
yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body
shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real
world she wouldn’t just see your head.
Once
the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the
first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during
daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her. After all, you
have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and
she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left
is to make her feel safe meeting you.
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