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There
is a big difference between being aggressive or confident and being
too aggressive, over-confident, or just plain sleazy or slimy from a
woman’s point of view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you
will come across as too aggressive…maybe even, scary. Try to
remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep
the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. Patience is
the key.
Nobody
is perfect. We are all flawed in some way or another…and that
includes you, as well. If you expect the woman to be absolutely
perfect and demand that, you will always be disappointed. Demanding
perfectionism in your work is one thing. Demanding perfectionism
from a friend, co-worker or a lady you are interested in is not just
fine. It won’t happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them.
Decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.
Little
white lies and false fronts won’t work. Be honest from the
beginning of a relationship. Write your profile. Make it
interesting but don’t make false statements. The truth will come
out eventually anyway. If you say you are a lawyer who makes a
million bucks a year and you are really an electrician that makes
$75,000, you have set yourself up for failure.
Remember…don’t
be too aggressive, expect to ever find perfection or put on a false
front.
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