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While
chatting online or by email do not write your life story. His eyes
will glaze over and he will fall out of his chair. Keep it short and
sweet until he asks for details…then provide them slowly and only
answer the questions he asks. For instance: If he asks how many
siblings you have, he is NOT asking for the details of your
interaction with them. He really just wants to know how many you
have. Say you have 2 (or whatever is true) and then ask how many he
has. For every question he asks you, you should ask one of him.
Nothing turns a man off like a long- winded woman who just doesn’t
know when to shut up or how to listen.
Never,
ever, EVER lie. I really believe that lies will catch up with you
sooner or later. Many women (and men) lie about their age, marital
status, employment, height, weight and a host of other things in
their online profiles. That is a huge mistake. If you find a man
who you are really interested in, he will find out you lied and there
goes any possibility of the relationship progressing. So, just be
honest. There is someone out there who will like you…even come to
love you…for exactly the person you are.
Don’t
be too eager. It makes you look desperate and it really puts a man
off. They are first and foremost conquerors and if getting the
person of their desires to like them too is just too easy, they will
quickly lose interest. I don’t mean play “hard-to-get”. I
mean, don’t push for a face-to-face meeting. Don’t email them or
IM them too frequently. Play it safe and play it cool.
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